Today Hammy had his annual EEG scan ( he gets them yearly til he is 15 due to the brain tumor he had at 11) his brain waves are perfectly normal, and the strobe lights did not trigger any seizures, his recovery is nothing short of miraculous, so anyway after we left the hospital he wanted me to take him to walmart, he took some of his babysitting money and bought a small bag of potting soil and picked out a small red rose bush , he debated over pink and red for a bit, then chose a pot that had 4 little red rose bushes and I checked it over to be sure it was healthy and free of spider mites and other pests for him.
When we got home Hammy took his tea pot and asked me to plant the roses in it for him, which I did, the Roses represent life and healing beyond the broken tea pot and they Honour his Mother with their ever lasting beauty (she absolutely loved roses)
So here is Hammys representation of life and his Honour and Memory of his Mother …
this photo really doesn’t do his tea pot or his roses justice, they both are absolutely beautiful , and it is a very beautiful way to honour his Mother that Hammy has done.
I had no idea that my son at 13 was that deep of a thinker, I am both impressed and in awe of him, he never ceases to amaze me with his thoughtfulness,love and compassion that he freely has towards others , and I think he put together a pretty amazing tribute for his life and his Mother, I know she is here at his side just beaming with love and pride towards her son Hammy and I know for certain she would be very honoured that he has done this for her. , I know I am extremely proud of him, he is dealing with his grief and loss very well and his journey and path seems to be getting a little easier to walk for him, after he told me the story of the tea pot and what it represents and the roses I know in my heart that my boy is going to be okay and have a good long life.
For Hammy I wish and hope the woman he meets and falls in love with and takes to be his wife, is a good strong woman capable of handling the love and kindness that he has in abundance without questioning or doubting that it is genuine and pure, there is an awful lot of my wife in Hammy, both spiritually, emotionally,and personality , not to mention he is a spitting image of her , I hope his future wife realises and understands exactly what she has in her husband and will return the love and devotion that he will give her so freely honestly and passionately. ( yes I will be checking any future potential wives out very closely , they better be equally as passionate, honest and loving as him or they won’t get to have him) …. I am sure his Mother will influence him in choosing just the right partner for him .
So anyway that’s all I have for now, Remember Folks:express your love often, never take tomorrow for granted,and be kind to others
Butch
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